Source: How do rules affect your mindset? Perfect timing as I stumbled across this question about how rules affect the submissive mindset, I’d been pondering the last few weeks myself. We don’t really have a lot of rules. I like to joke it’s because I’m … Continue readingCurfews, Bedtimes and other Nonsense Rules…
I fumbled with the leather between my fingers for some time. It was smooth on one side and rough on the other. You let me hold the collar to contemplate putting it on. It shouldn’t have been that hard to decide. I got caught up … Continue readingHindsight
My eyes seemed to grow with moisture Like my mouth. Holding still, holding silent. I kept myself from frantic panic by thinking that it would be over soon. Helplessly disciplined. I could feel the plastic. I almost tried to naw at it from within side … Continue readingGagged Mouth. Free Thoughts.
My experiences in the Perth BDSM community because of my personal growth has positively amplified explicitly how I regard myself, my relationship and kinky friends. … Continue readingHow We Hold Space in BDSM
There has been times in my journey to understanding what submission is and how I relate to it that genuinely frightens the crap out of me. There is an attitude among most people that being submissive in any sense is wrong, shameful and insulting. Buying into … Continue readingSubmission: The boogieman under the bed.
Spanking is a very special part of my relationship dynamic. For me, there is nothing quite as accessible and open for feisty improv and for that it’s one of my favourite things to do. I like knowing that I might not always ‘see’ it coming and … Continue readingFor the Love of Spanking