It’s that time of year again when “they” sell love in the form of gifts with the promise of passion and romance. Where lonely hearts are thought to seek desperate solitude in lonely boxes of chocolates and trashy romance. Perhaps the flirty singles are bidding … Continue readingFuck being a Valentine….
Earlier this year I shared a writing about my troubles with gratitude journalling “What Makes You Happy“, which I’ve been reflecting on a lot as of late. I’ve been thinking about how much has changed since I wrote that piece, even though is the grand … Continue readingPursuing Happiness in BDSM
Source: How do rules affect your mindset? Perfect timing as I stumbled across this question about how rules affect the submissive mindset, I’d been pondering the last few weeks myself. We don’t really have a lot of rules. I like to joke it’s because I’m … Continue readingCurfews, Bedtimes and other Nonsense Rules…
I fumbled with the leather between my fingers for some time. It was smooth on one side and rough on the other. You let me hold the collar to contemplate putting it on. It shouldn’t have been that hard to decide. I got caught up … Continue readingHindsight
We attended a skillshare today which focused on Rituals and Routines. Its a long time to wait to hear specific information in person with people who genuinely have a passion and love for openly discussing the ins and outs of BDSM and relationship dynamics. … Continue readingRelationship Rituals For The Busy S-type!