Earlier this year I shared a writing about my troubles with gratitude journalling “What Makes You Happy“, which I’ve been reflecting on a lot as of late. I’ve been thinking about how much has changed since I wrote that piece, even though is the grand … Continue readingPursuing Happiness in BDSM
That feeling of picking up really hot take our food like fish and chips and having it sit really hotly in your lap for the entire drive home. When you’re cleaning with a bucket of hot water and you wring the boiling water from the … Continue readingSensations I love to hate.
Source: How do rules affect your mindset? Perfect timing as I stumbled across this question about how rules affect the submissive mindset, I’d been pondering the last few weeks myself. We don’t really have a lot of rules. I like to joke it’s because I’m … Continue readingCurfews, Bedtimes and other Nonsense Rules…
I’ve always felt as though it’s been obvious to people that I’m a bit odd. When I was younger I definitely revelled in the shock factor and extracting reactions. It was even more bitter sweet when the more I was labelled “weird” “odd” “goth” … Continue readingTaboo: Loving Pain
My eyes seemed to grow with moisture Like my mouth. Holding still, holding silent. I kept myself from frantic panic by thinking that it would be over soon. Helplessly disciplined. I could feel the plastic. I almost tried to naw at it from within side … Continue readingGagged Mouth. Free Thoughts.
My experiences in the Perth BDSM community because of my personal growth has positively amplified explicitly how I regard myself, my relationship and kinky friends. … Continue readingHow We Hold Space in BDSM